Mothers BEWARE: Kissing LIKE THIS may be a new form of child abuse!

May 11, 2010 4 Comments »

This is a tricky issue.
The internet is buzzing about several celebrity moms who have been a little too loose with their lips.
On Mother’s day Kim Porter (diddy’s baby momma) was seen in a picture kissing her 18-year-old son Quincy. A picture can tell a story, but surely we can’t believe that a snapshot can truly tell us if that kiss was lustFUL or just FULL of love. Personally, when I look at the picture, I just shrug if off as a mom giving her boy a simple kiss. It really could have been merely a second, but we’ll never know. All I know is that I have a son and I LOVE him so much and I kiss him on the lips everyday (and I dare someone to object) but then again, he is just a 1-year-old bouncing baby boy. So for me, I’m excused because my kissing is a necessity. At least I think so! But when he’s 18, well, I’ll probably just give him a peck on the cheek and a hug so big that he’ll sound like Roger on What’s Happening saying, “Momma, I can’t breathe!”
But Kim Porter giving her son a kiss doesn’t bother me NEARLY AS MUCH as the kiss LisaRaye laid on her 20-year-old daughter.

I was watching LisaRaye’s show the Real McCoy and I REALLY was outraged. I couldn’t believe how passionately she was kissing her daughter and the kisses were kinda unwarranted. She was a little too serious about wanting kisses from her daughter that were at least 40 seconds long. And she laid her daughter down and hovered over her to kiss her in a way that REALLY MADE ME CRINGE! I have a 17-year-old and I just can’t imagine holding her down to kiss her like that. It just doesn’t seem right. Something’s rotten in LisaRaye’s cotton.
LisaRaye should have probably decided against a reality show because all it shows is that she truly has some screws loose. I didn’t think so before the show, but she has now confirmed her crazy card.
There’s a difference between loving your kids and being obsessive for their love to the point where it looks like you want to molest them. LisaRaye’s kisses look suspect to me. They are just too passionate for a 20-year-old girl who is grown. There’s seems to be a bit of a Freudian thing brewing here. She sucks on her face and keeps her lips posted on her face, like there are deeper thoughts brewing inside of her.
Also, did you see how LisaRaye even pimped her daughter on the music video set? She was showing her and telling her how to move like a video girl and how to stand out. What kind of mother would encourage her daughter to emulate a video vixen? Why not show her how to fill out college applications or tell her how to interview.
She should give her daughter a kiss on the cheek and keep it moving. But to keep her lips planted on her face and twist her head like she’s making out just doesn’t sit well with me. It makes me feel uneasy–even for a mom of five. And trust me, I do a lot of kissing, but I never make my kids feel like it’s anything but a mommy showing love–not LUST!
So for me, well, I’m gonna keep LOVINGLY kissing my kids. Kisses serve their purpose if it’s done with love and not in a way where you are holding a child down and forcing them to give you kisses. LisaRaye, this might be a form of child abuse– or breathe abuse, but only your daughter can file charges for foul breathe!
Ewww…LisaRaye get a man and a room!

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  1. Anonymous May 12, 2010 at 7:04 pm -

    Every body is different in showing their affection if they kiss on the lips, face or where ever it's how they show it.It's no law or degree to say how to show your affection, to your child as long as it is a parent to child kiss, My son and I kiss on the lips my daughter I kiss her on the cheek or neck. Girls don't like to be kissed in the mouth, not to say some girls do, especially when they are teen and adults. little girls you can kiss them on the lips and get away with it. Lisa Raye has some kind of insecurity that may cause her to act the way she does towards her daughter…she may be trying to be the father and mother…what ever…Angelina Jolie kisses her brother in the mouth…yuke to each his own…don't judge

  2. Kia Morgan Smith May 12, 2010 at 7:31 pm -

    Thank you for commenting. I hear ya… You know what, I found out that you are right about the insecurity thing…LisaRaye actually sent her daughter away for years to boarding school. I think she may be compensating for lost time. Yeah well, people get judged everyday, especially when they opt to go on national tv and let us into their lives. But I'm just making an observation because sometimes celebrity NEED to hear things from regular folk and not the sycophants that are usually around them telling them everything they want to hear.

  3. DryerBuzz May 16, 2010 at 8:54 pm -

    I used to be the mom of a hundred kisses. Then came LisaRaye and now the kids and i just high five lol.

  4. angie April 18, 2011 at 6:39 pm -

    well i think lisa raye loves her child and as a single parent its hard ,although she's ritch she's still a mommy and kissing her child on the lips forehead or wherever that's their dame business ,i love the relationship they have ,i have a seven years old (7) daughter and i kiss her as if there's no tomorrow and i will always because u never know what's gonna happen in the next minuit so please stop hating on lisa and KIA.