You can keep your mouth close – or your legs closed for that matter, and not say a thing about the “S” word.
But the fact of the matter is, if you’re married or in a committed relationship or even if you just answer to booty calls, SEX is something you NEED to talk about in a mature, responsible way.
And DeShai Cole is just the give-it-to-me straight type of sex “therapist” who will keep it real about how to make your bedroom life a whole lot better.
On Friday, DeShai, the host of Atlanta’s “Grown Ass Woman Talk” radio show conducted a private seminar at Hotel Twelve in Atlanta about hot, saucy sex that will keep your man or woman locked, stocked and coming back for more. And no, this was not your grandmomma’s lesson about the birds and the bees and the bedroom.
While I can’t go into particulars because I don’t want your mouth to hit the floor, DeShai laid down some real pointers about some things women tend to shy away from in the bedroom. (Just let your mind do the walking right here.) And the room was PACKED with women who were ready and willing to take up the advice. Hey, why not. The fact is that the last thing I want is for my man to seek pleasure elsewhere. I’ve been with my husband for 11 years and there’s no way I will allow another woman to come and take what I have built because I was unwilling to change up some things to keep him happy. Know what I mean.
DeShai’s seminar was classy, yet raunchy and keep-it-real– all the components of what a woman should be for her man. In the bedroom, DeShai said that a woman should be a sex-kitten of sorts, willing to be ALL her man wants her to be to spice things up. But of course at work, a woman should be the classy professional that’s demanded of her. This was definitely a lesson some young girls out there who flash their booty and breasts at every opportunity needed to hear.
And sexy, DeShai said, has no size! So if you’re a 2 or a 22, you can shake it and drop it like it’s hot for your man and have his eyes and other places popping! I think this was a very good point because a lot of women start feeling less sexy as they gain weight. But I agree sexy is not about size, it’s how you carry yourself and your confidence plays a big factor too.
There was good food, drinks and candy. EYE Candy. Take a looky right here. This was the bartender and that’s all I will say about that!
So this seminar is definitely something that was meaningful and worthwhile and I like DeShai’s delivery. She comes across as your best girlfriend tellin’ it like it is, leaving no tables (or beds) unturned! Sometimes you just need to hear it real and raw and that’s when it becomes a real wake-up call.
You can catch DeShai on www.grownasswomantalk.com every Wednesday at 9p.m.
DeShai also has a clothing line, Nubia Clothing that is as cute as can be. Check her out at NubiaClothing.com
Nubia Clothing Company was founded in 2011 by DeShai and her husband, Timothy Davidson. The clothing line was birthed in Houston, Texas. Shortly after, the founders moved to Atlanta, Georgia to expand the brand.
If you need any sex advice, tips or counseling, reach out to DeShai and she will help you put the sparkle back into your love life. Now that’s the kind of sparkle you need to get those love flames flaring!