Marriage & Love

An Open Letter in Memes: When So-Called Friends Infect Your Relationship with Preconceived Notions & Prejudice

An Open Letter in Memes: When So-Called Friends Infect Your Relationship with Preconceived Notions & Prejudice
March 23, 2016 Comments Off on An Open Letter in Memes: When So-Called Friends Infect Your Relationship with Preconceived Notions & Prejudice

(Editor’s Note: Kaelani Allen is my oldest daughter. This is an open letter to the so-called friends who hurt her. As a mom it’s hurtful when people judge your children, especially when you worked all your life to NOT be ... Read More »

Swinging from Shower Rods: 5 Ways to Keep Sex Saucy in the Bedroom

Swinging from Shower Rods: 5 Ways to Keep Sex Saucy in the Bedroom
April 17, 2014 2 Comments »

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Celebrating our love and Rudy’s birthday with a cruise to the Bahamas

Celebrating our love and Rudy’s birthday with a cruise to the Bahamas
March 23, 2014 Comments Off on Celebrating our love and Rudy’s birthday with a cruise to the Bahamas

As if throwing a 50th BIRTHDAY BASH March 1 in Philadelphia wasn’t enough, I took my boo to the Bahamas to0 continue the celebration–without the kids.  It was a quick weekend getaway and it definitely wasn’t enough for us. But ... Read More »

Who’s leading the charge on raising young men? Because their mindset sucks!

Who’s leading the charge on raising young men? Because their mindset sucks!
March 18, 2014 4 Comments »

Did I just have a conversation with a guy who basically balked at the fact that my husband is a strong provider of my family? This guy side-eyed the fact that I have an old-school man who works hard to ... Read More »

Setting the tone for Mommy/Daddy Date Night!

Setting the tone for Mommy/Daddy Date Night!
November 5, 2013 Comments Off on Setting the tone for Mommy/Daddy Date Night!

Date nights are few and far between for us. So much so that last year I sent the kids upstairs and I decked the halls downstairs with flowers, music, lit candles and set the ambiance for a totally romantic Valentine’s ... Read More »

@SingleWivesClub Weekend w/@Koereyelle and upcoming cocktails w/@RashanAli

@SingleWivesClub Weekend w/@Koereyelle and upcoming cocktails w/@RashanAli
September 8, 2013 Comments Off on @SingleWivesClub Weekend w/@Koereyelle and upcoming cocktails w/@RashanAli

One thing I know is that I really like Rashan Ali. She’s the down-to-earth host of Ladies Night TV and most recently when my favorite author and friend Denene Millner appeared on the show, I thought I’d check it out. ... Read More »

So excited! I’m making my marriage better ON THE BEACH with @BlackandMarried!

So excited! I’m making my marriage better ON THE BEACH with @BlackandMarried!
August 23, 2013 2 Comments »

I don’t think I’ve ever been MORE EXCITED! I just booked a MARRIAGE CRUISE to Honduras and Mexico with my husband Rudy and Lamar and Ronnie Tyler of Black and Married With Kids! They are hosting a Marriage Cruise- Seminar ... Read More »

My husband’s Public Love Letter

My husband’s Public Love Letter
April 21, 2013 3 Comments »

Talk about a Love Letter! I have been going through a lot these past few months trying to lose weight and have successfully lost 16 pounds. My intentions were to blog about it when I lost at least 30 pounds ... Read More »

What does Valentine’s Day mean to me and my husband Rudy

What does Valentine’s Day mean to me and my husband Rudy
February 11, 2013 Comments Off on What does Valentine’s Day mean to me and my husband Rudy

When it comes to me and my husband Rudy Smith, everyday is Valentine’s Day. Every day we work to show how much we love and care about each other. Every day matters to me. I make sure that I am ... Read More »